The world is full of people searching for identity and a path to achieve their goals. It takes serious grit to refuse to settle, to dream bigger than reality, and take the first step.

Through hundreds of conversations and even more chats going on in my head, I began to see opportunities to encourage others to first look within, then challenge them to get out of their comfort zone and do something.  

Every woman has experienced some form of a glass ceiling, run into opposition in pursuing her goals, struggled to define her own identity, and mostly likely hesitated to dream big and run after those ideas. Discovering your identity and pursuing what is in your heart will lead down the path toward fulfillment.  You were created for a purpose and with a specific design that only you complete.  

Grit is made of passion and perseverance.

Every bit of podcast content is designed to share pieces of grit displayed by women from an array of backgrounds, professions, and with varying goals.  

The blog posts have elements of what happens along this journey called life, anecdotes from my own experiences, and universal life lessons and stories from guest writers.

My heart's wish is that you would perhaps see bits of yourself in these stories, but more importantly be challenged to step up your grit game.  Think bigger, dream bigger, and do what you love no matter what.

Dig deep, aim high.



Pieces of Grit Full Library

Passion and perseverance are the things that determine our success. Here you'll find stories of women digging in, getting to the root of who they are and making big things happen in their lives.

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Episode 89: A Super Rare Cancer Diagnosis at 29

When you don't know if you will even make it five months to your 30th birthday, you know that this is the moment you need to dig in and find all the grit you have.

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The Grit List

Short episodes to give you the tips, tricks, and tools to develop grit in your own life. We cover everything from personal relationships to confrontation skills to why you should organize your kitchen. It's quick, it's fun, and it will amp up your life!

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Episode 88: Choosing a Word of the Year

It's become such a popular thing, but what is the point of a word of the year and how do you figure out what to choose?

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Episode 87: The 'Hot Pastor' Problem

Which came first, the hot pastor or the idolizing church? This conversation delves into skinny jeans, tight shirts, and the cultural expectation that drives pastors to be who and what they become.

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Episode 86: How to Do the Minimum

From two chronic over-achievers you're now going to get a dose of reality and learn how to slack off with the best of them.

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Episode 85: The Myth of Calling (or not?)

How do you feel about the word and concept of calling? I'm not convinced it's much of a thing outside church circles, which makes me have serious issues. Mikala and I are going head to head on a topic we don't agree on.

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Episode 84: Celebrating VP-elect Kamala Harris

Regardless of who you voted for, we should be celebrating a woman who has broken the ultimate glass ceiling in our country.

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Episode 83: Finally Speaking What I Believe with Jory Micah

Jory completed an AA in Practical Theology, a BS in Church Ministries and an MA in Biblical Studies. She combines her education and life experience to advocate for injustice on every level and especially speak up for women.

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Episode 82: It's OKAY to be Uncomfortable

Much of life is uncomfortable if we stop and think about it. Removing discomfort is not a worthwhile pursuit, so what is?

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Episode 81: Should Your Passions Match Your Job?

There is a lot of buzz around pursuing your passions, but does that mean it should infiltrate every area of your life?

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Episode 80: Why We Need More Women in Construction

I love finding women who are changing stereotypes and working to bring balance to male-dominated industries. Stephanie is an architect, real estate agent and General Contractor doing just that.

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Episode 78: Q&A with Oneya Okuwobi on How to Fight Racism

Oneya Okuwobi, author, doctoral candidate, wife, pastor, and mother, joined a Zoom call with some of the show's listeners who requested time with her to open up about some of the questions they have regarding race.

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Episode 75: Freemason to Mansion

A vacant freemason temple with renovations for decades and a hint of the paranormal. Just want everyone dreams of as their next home, right? Theresa and her family knew they had found home sweet home and the biggest adventure of all.

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Episode 69: WOC Spotlight: Love MUST Contain Justice with Courtney Wright

This black female pastor has been through decades of racism and promises and attempts at reform. She is sharing her heart and her wisdom on how we move forward from here.

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Episode 66: Don't Be Afraid to NOT Go Back to Normal with Oneya Okuwobi

You're a racist. I'm a racist. Let's admit that and get it out of the way. Let's aim for justice and an understanding of systemic issues that prevent us from creating equity - a chance for people to seize opportunity and make a better life.

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Episode 38: Striving for Racial Healing

You know we need to be further along as a society. You want to play your part. Where in the world do you start? Right here with Oneya and this conversation.

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Episode 62: Conscious Leadership: Work Happy, Live Happy, Be Happy

We all want to live more consciously, especially in crazy times like these. increasing awareness begins with our self awareness. Meredith illuminates all the ways to better lead yourself.

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Episode 60: Beauty from Ashes: Uganda

Adventurous women inspire me greatly. Hannah is no exception. She moved to Africa in her early 20s and was captured by the need for better healthcare and training for teen moms. Listen to this glimpse into her life.

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Episode 58: Freedom Sisters: Uniting Female Veterans

Kerri Jeter had an incredible career both in the military and out. She is using her passion and zeal to create community for a fast growing populations of U.S. Veterans.

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Episode 56: Thriving Through Crisis & Disruption with Jenni Catron

Disruption doesn't have to be negative. Jenni and I explore ways you can use these seasons to come out stronger on the other side.

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Episode 55: How to Be An Influencer at Any Age

Ambition Evolve was born as a dream to help women everywhere pivot in life and move on to bigger and better opportunities. Kenyetta combines her corporate and leadership experience with her background in psychology to help people overcome mental barriers and other internal aspects holding them back from unleashing who they are.

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Episode 54: Accessing & Managing Your Emotions During Coronavirus 2020

Tons of emotions are flowing through us as we adjust to this new normal and try to anticipate what is coming. Mikala and I talk about the differences in how we process and what we are doing to be sure we stay in touch with ourselves.

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Episode 53: How a Period Coach Helps You Find Your Best Rhythm

Courtney Titus is the coach you want in your life right now. She will help you understand how each week of your cycle impacts what you do (and shouldn't do). She also explains the extent your nutrition affects your hormonal health.

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Episode 50: Success Starts with Brutal Honesty with Brooke Lee

Brooke Lee speaks to women all over the country encouraging them to get in touch with who they were created to be, get honest with themselves and be obedient to what they know is the right path for them.

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Episode 49: The Girls Known By a Number with Noel Yeatts

There is so much happening in the world outside of our daily lives. We can get caught up in our own challenges and life situation. What would happen if we all shifted even a portion of our focus to the women around the world who face more adversity than most of us will ever know?

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Episode 40: Defining & Communicating Your Value

You bring value to the table. Refuse to let anyone talk you into less than you are worth. Correy is giving all the wisdom on admitting your worth to yourself and how to let the people around you know you mean business.

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Episode 37: How to Use the Enneagram in ALL the Wrong Ways

My guest, Mikala JVR, and I are taking you into the recesses of our minds when it comes to the enneagram, the ways we misuse it and the numbers that most annoy us. Marriage, work, all the relationships put us to the test when personalities are involved.

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Episode 34: How to Be a Modern Day Nomad with Courtney Cox

From girly-girl to living out of a backpack for over a year in Europe, then traveling the US living in a van, this girl has enough wanderlust for us all. Author, illustrator, and artist Courtney Cox shares her best tips to travel cheap and go minimalist.

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Episode 33: From Dreamer to CEO: Focusing on Your Financial Goals with Brandy Avery

Inspired by her own childhood and early career experience helping women navigate medical financial challenges, Brandy discovered her passion and turned it into her mission.

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Episode 29: Cannabis 101: An Intro to THC & CBD

It's still controversial in some places, but we are tiptoeing into the world of hemp and cannabis. We're talking to the owner of an educational website that teaches people how to use CBD for a variety of uses.

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Episode 27: Creating a Connection with Food & Online Health Contradiction with Tara Coleman

We take our bodies for granted and assume they will work for us without giving them the care and attention they need. There's a better way to figure out nutrition and learn to love food.

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Episode 25: Period Cramps are NOT Normal!

Kirsten is busting myths that women have to suffer at any point during their cycle. After a lifetime of living with common misconceptions, Kirsten has helped move into a place of better health and I'm on a mission to share this with as many women as I can.

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Episode 24: Say Yes to the Hard Things with Laura Hairston

Sometimes taking on the tough decisions leads us to the breakthroughs we need most. Don't stay on the path of least resistance.

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Episode 23: Blazing the Ice Age Trail with Annie Weiss

Twelve hundred miles, 31 counties, countless energy gels. Annie Weiss ran for days following a prehistoric glacier path to set the record for running the Ice Age Trail, beating every other woman AND man who had attempted this feat.

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Episode 18: Healing Trauma Through the Body with Lauren Going

As a Baltimore yogi and therapist, Lauren helps others heal holistically from the inside out and is sharing her best tips. There's never been a better time to get healthy and become the best version of you.

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Episode 15: Secrets to Unlocking Your Creativity & Authenticity

Ever wonder how to go deeper in your understanding of yourself? Lana has all the best advice for you.

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Episode 14: Feeding Models Confidence and Health

Brittney is walking out her childhood dream as she elevates the fashion and modeling scene in Pittsburg. She has studied and trained in some of the top fashion cities of the world, yet felt called back to her childhood stomping grounds with a vision to provide a holistic style of care and coaching for teens and young women entering the world of modeling.

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Episode 12: How to Create a Life Purpose Statement, Part 1

This is an opportunity for you to begin with a clean slate, a fresh perspective. Creating a Life Purpose Statement will challenge you to look at the deep and dark parts of you to see your true reflection, then strengthen and highlight the awesome parts of you that people around you most likely see already. 

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Episode 11: Make Excellence a Habit with Sabrina Little

She can run 100 miles. She can quote Aristotle. Catch the realness and the work behind the magic in this convo with the sweetest philosopher you've ever met.

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Episode 91: Beating the Comparison Trap

We constantly fight the pressure of social media and the "shoulds". It's time to stop comparing ourselves to others in any area and start living our lives according to our own unique path.

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Relationship Goals from the Worst Wife Ever

All I'm saying is that you strive to be an individual and that's what I preach. So shouldn't your relationship be as unique as God made both you and your spouse?

Getting Into Your Zone of Genius

You may not have your dream career yet, but it's important to find satisfaction within your job. Here's how to create job satisfaction.

Weekly Obsession: Blood Sugar, Headaches, and Snacks

Hacking into hormones and learning to read the data that backs up how I feel.

Weekly Obsession: Inflammation

If you had to choose a single health goal, this might be the best one.

Girl, Wash Your Mouth!

This week's obsession. Do you have any idea how much of your body's health is connected to your mouth?

My Brand of Crazy

It's like a flavor of the week. Life has so many experiences and I apparently want to try them all. Realizing I have a new obsession every week is hilarious and self-revealing.

Which Came First: The Motivation or the Goal?

Maybe it's different for everyone. This is a topic I haven't explored much in my own life or with other women. The combination of these are a recipe for grit, regardless of success.

Enneagram Discovery: Stress & Health Integration

Trying to figure out your enneagram Type? Use the direction of integration to help solidify your core motivations.

7 Surprising Discoveries of a New Gig Economist

Twelve months I would have laughed in your face if you had told me I would walk away from my job and be living the life of a freelancer and contractor. It's like floating around in space hoping you're still tethered to something stable.

Get Out of Your Rut

Habits and routines can morph into ruts all too quickly and easily. Here are ways to prevent good habits from turning into something you dread.

What Can You Actually Control?

Figuring out what is within your power to control will change your perspective on just about everything..

Resilience Equals Strength + Flexibility

Developing strength in every area of your life is great, but there's more. Adding flexibility creates a balance that will see you through every season.

Kicking Perfection to the Curb

With so many ideals in life, pursuing the important things can still be achieved in a state of zen.

The Inevitable Fork in the Road

Life is a series of choices. Many harder than we thought. How do you know if you're making the right choice?

Changing a Habit is Easier Than You Think

You CAN change your habits. There's no magic pill, but the answer is free and while it might seem simple, it's the mighty link you've been missing.

The Power of Retreat

Two steps forward and one step back isn't the worst thing that can happen. Occasionally you benefit from stepping back and doing nothing.

Sleeping to Improve Your Life

Sleep fuels everything. Without it, you're useless. There's only so much espresso can do for you. Here are my tips to fall asleep faster and set yourself up for quality rest.

3 Lessons I Learned in Communications Class

I am an interrupter, I can barely finish a thought, and I have the emotional capacity of a brick. How in the heck can I communicate anything?

Train for Performance

All the things you're doing right now are preparing you for something greater down the road. Worry less about how you appear and focus on sustainable leadership, character, and growth.

Memory Hacks You Won't Forget

You juggle so many balls every day. Keep them all in the air with these tips to keep your brain extra sharp.

Does Your Facial Expression Match What You Are Saying?

Trained to show nothing on my face, I've spent my adult life learning the balance of showing others how I feel through body language.

Diary of an Introvert

I'm not shy. I want people to understand that about introverts. I love large gatherings, high energy environments, and networking opportunities. I just don't do it the same way you do.

Can You Not? And Other Questions You Should Never Ask

Cringing just writing that title... It might be the worst question ever. And I'm guilty of overusing it.

A Multi-Hyphenated Life

Life is full of opportunity and you are full of possibilities. Run after all your passions and interests; you'll never know which one is the best fit until you try them all on. It's okay to try a bunch of good things in search of a great thing.

Relationship Success Comes from Loving Yourself

Learning to love yourself gives you the edge for success. You can only give away what you have. When you genuinely value and appreciate yourself, you'll create the same effect on others.

Hey, Your Crazy is Showing

We all have our idiosyncrasies. The decision is whether they control you or you control them.

Cambodia or Bust!

This is the year my family moved farther apart than ever before. It's sad. And weird. But our paths take different turns, encouraging us to strengthen our relationships over the miles.

When Your Life Plan Takes a Left Turn

A failed adoption of siblings turned Mikala's heart toward another group who needed rescuing. See how her urban menagerie is constantly growing.

Entrepreneur by Marriage

Boy meets girl. Entrepreneur meets life-long planner. Someone has to change sides, so if you can't beat 'em, join 'em.

Kaizen: Good Change for Your Life

The Japanese word for good change. Could you use a little good change in your life? Follow this method and make Kaizen your mantra.


Advent Resources

Here are some of my favorite books and resources to take you through Advent and go as deep as you desire.

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Book List for Social Distancing 2020

Some are fun, most are challenging, but they are all near to my heart.

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All Things Coffee

Everyone needs some kind of vice in their life. Welcome to mine!

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Agape International Missions

Too many girls never have the chance to dream about a future unless we get involved.

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CBD Product Review

A chat with Hempsley owner Kristen Williams

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San Diego Spots

I'm a simple person and prefer hanging out near the beach, in the most low-key spots I can find. Occasionally I feel outdoorsy and go for a little hike or something adventurous. I love the urban perimeter and all things coffee and running.

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Women's Health Tips & Resources

Grit requires health. Learning to love and care for yourself is the first step to living a successful life. Here are links to many of my favorite products and resources for women.

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Summer Book Reads

Summer is here and it's time to hang by the pool, travel to the beach, or curl up on your patio with a cup of coffee. Try adding some of these to your book list.

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Free worksheets to help you stay on track for the next 90 days.

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Understanding motivation is important. Use the right tools for yourself and your team.

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New Book! Chaos Clarified: Making a Path Through the Tangle of Life

Get ready to make sense of who you are, where you've been and where you're heading in life.

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What should you focus on today? This week? This month? It can be overwhelming, so this worksheet will help break down a few simple thoughts and steps to move you forward.

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A free download to develop a collaborative culture with other women focused on growth and development.

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Enneagram Starter Pack

My favorite personality test that will open your self awareness and lead you to your best self.

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A review of CBD products and growth practices with the owner of Hempsley Health

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Considering hosting a podcast? Here are my best tips to start off on the right foot.

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Go deeper in your identity. Discover what's waiting beneath the surface and all the potential you hold inside.

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Speaking Highlights

 Different seasons of life require different expectations. Give yourself the grace to move fluidly through each one."

Madewell345 Podcast with Brianna WilkersonWellness CoachListen to the Podcast

 Mara invited me to join her for a conversation recently about my own journey and why it's so important for women to get unstuck and move forward."

Intuition Queens with Mara MarchesiPodcasterListen to the Episode

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